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Alin’s Diary ✨'s avatar

That's a powerful article! And I found your page very informative, helpful and comfortable. 🕊️I feel exactly what you shared about. 🥹 And it’s so nice that you added a real example with your client; it gave me the understanding that we all have common issues sometimes. 🙏🏻

I would say that it’s a process I’m currently going through after relationships where I literally felt all the flashbacks from my relationship with my dad and where all those roots came from.

It’s painful for sure, and sometimes it feels so wavy from day to day. But I believe in my growth through experiences. I tend to choose myself and explore my inner beauty and value more patiently after all those repeated patterns of choosing partners.

It’s definitely time to be a caring friend to my whole self. 🌷

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Zalman Nelson's avatar

Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing so openly, Alin. What you described is so powerful: recognizing painful patterns, facing the roots, and choosing to show up for yourself differently. That's really brave work. It is a wavy, messy process, but you’re clearly walking through it with reflection and intention. Being a caring friend to your whole self is one of the most beautiful commitments you can make. Keep going! You're not alone in this. 🌱

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